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Cherish your family & life.
Written on: Wednesday, April 14, 2010
Time: 11:12 AM

Before I continue people who is reading this please think before the next out come happens thing for the rest of the people around you.

Is been long since my cousin Vincent left us.
But sometimes you suddenly have this feeling of him in mind that he is still with us.
Sometimes how I wish that I could share with him some interesting stuff that things he had never try before.
At times where I would like to meet up with him but then he's not here anymore.
Is like losing some one around you feels really different even if he or she is your friend.
At times while I am asleep, dreams of him looks so real that when I got up he's never there.

Today as I got up mum got me an Newspaper lying on the chair in my room.
I got up and flip through the pages.
There is this recent news about a guy name Loh Ying Jie.
He has just finish his National Service and had applied to study in a local University.
He didn't make it...
Just because the fun of excitement on a holiday near Patong Beach where they rented Phuket jet-ski.
An intersect crash with his friend by accident, he got hit skull hit.
Blood clot in his brain, doctor announced that he might not make it.
As today early morning 2AM, Ying Jie left while his parents is right by his side.
His mother was tremendously sad and can't surmount the fact.

So from here the story is about the same as my cousin Vincent.
But he's story is slightly different.
He's also because of excitement and got into an argument with another group of don't know what.
But part of the things is not clear who started it.
As he went to the toilet alone, the group went in together and whacked him.
The next thing in first though you will run.
So he ran out of the Disco and flag for a taxi while the group are still chasing him.
Next he got up the taxi but was too slow when one of the 3 guys stab him with a knife on his right tight.
Because of lost of blood he past away.
My Uncle and Aunt was shocked when they hear the news.
As they got to China he's already cold.
Many came to visit him at the funeral.

So the main point is, not to let people around you feel down and depressed.
I would know how Ying Jie's parents feel too.
As it's painful to lose your son while raising him while he is a baby.

After the incident I told my sister not to be rude with mummy or daddy.
What if one day they are gone?
Would you blame yourself for begin respectful to them.
It will be too late.
Sometimes I tell my friend when ever they tell me things that their parents are no good and keep scolding them for nothing.
Just let them be!
But I'm not saying that when you did something wrong and they scold you, that is really your fault.
For then just let them be, maybe they'll feel better after scolding?
Or then sometimes just talk to them more while they are home, get your relationship amoung your parents closer and things will get around.

Cherish your family & life.~
The future will always change if you think twice.